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 Humans engage in gossip for a complex array of reasons, ranging from evolutionary advantages to psychological gratification and social bonding. It is a ubiquitous behavior observed across all human societies, regardless of time or culture [1]. Studies have shown that people spend a significant portion of their daily conversations discussing individuals who are not present [1] [2]. For instance, one study found that Americans spend, on average, 52 minutes per day gossiping [1]. Another observational study from 1993 indicated that male participants spent 55% and female participants spent 67% of their conversation time on "the discussion of socially relevant topics" [2].

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The motivations behind gossip are multifaceted. From an evolutionary perspective, gossip is believed to have provided an adaptive strategy for early humans. It allowed for the dissemination of valuable information about reputations, helping individuals identify cooperative partners and deter selfish behavior [1] [3]. By sharing information about who is trustworthy or who cheats, gossip helps enforce social norms and promotes cooperation within groups [1] [2] [3]. This "reputation dissemination" and "selfishness deterrence" function gives gossipers an evolutionary edge [1]. For example, if a community member consistently acts selfishly, negative gossip about them can serve as a warning to others and encourage more cooperative behavior [2].

Beyond its evolutionary roots, gossip also serves various psychological and social functions. It can activate the brain's reward system, releasing dopamine and creating a sense of pleasure or satisfaction when sharing or hearing "juicy" information [4]. This neurological response reinforces the habit of gossiping [4]. Gossip can also be a tool for social status and power, as those who spread insider knowledge may feel more influential [4]. Negative gossip, in particular, can be used to diminish the status of others and elevate one's own standing [4].

Gossip also plays a role in emotional regulation, providing an outlet for venting frustrations and offering validation through shared experiences of betrayal or unfairness [4]. Humans are naturally curious, and gossip often involves novel or surprising information, making it inherently interesting [4]. Furthermore, participating in gossip can foster a sense of belonging and inclusion, as it creates shared knowledge and experiences within a social group [4] [2]. It can also help individuals navigate social hierarchies and understand group dynamics, which is particularly useful for newcomers to a group [5].

While often perceived negatively, much of gossip is neutral or even positive [2]. A 2019 meta-analysis found that approximately three-quarters of daily gossip was neutral, with only about 15% being negative and 9% positive [2]. Positive gossip can foster feelings of pride in the target, while negative gossip, if accurate, can sometimes motivate individuals to improve problematic behaviors [5]. The act of gossiping itself can be physiologically calming, reducing heart rates when individuals are able to actively discuss anti-social behavior or injustice [2].

However, an obsession with gossip can lead to negative consequences, including the spread of misinformation, invasion of privacy, and damage to relationships and reputations [4]. Individuals with low self-esteem or a lack of personal fulfillment may be more prone to excessive gossiping as a way to boost their self-worth or escape their own problems [4]. The digital age and social media have also amplified the accessibility and prevalence of gossip, with algorithms often prioritizing sensational content [4].

Ultimately, gossip is a complex human behavior with both beneficial and detrimental aspects. Its pervasive nature suggests its deep integration into human social fabric, serving as a powerful mechanism for information exchange, social control, and bonding [1] [2] [3] [5].

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5. How Humans Came to Love Gossip So Much. [Psychology Today]↩

Workplace gossip is a pervasive and complex issue, often stemming from fundamental human behaviors and organizational dynamics. While some companies attempt to curb it through strict policies, the legality and effectiveness of such measures are often challenged, particularly when they infringe upon employees' protected rights.

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Human beings engage in gossip for a variety of reasons, including insecurity, a lack of clear communication channels, boredom, a desire for connection, and even as a symptom of a toxic workplace culture.[4] It can serve as a misguided attempt to feel more in control, elevate oneself by putting others down, or fill information voids when official communication is lacking.[4] The act of sharing information, especially negative or secret details, can make individuals feel important and add intrigue to routine workdays.[3] As Rabbi Telushkin, author of Words That Hurt, Words That Heal, explains, "For most of us, exchanging critical evaluations about others is far more interesting and enjoyable than exchanging good news."[3]

However, the widespread nature of gossip can have significant negative impacts on a company. A survey by LiveCareer found that 58% of employees hear gossip weekly, and 30% hear it daily, with common topics including a colleague's work performance, potential for promotion, and personal lives.[5] This constant chatter can erode trust, lower morale, hinder career growth, and create a toxic work environment.[5] For instance, 47% of respondents in the LiveCareer survey reported that workplace gossip fuels tension and distrust, and the same percentage stated they don't trust coworkers with confidential information.[5]

Some companies implement "no gossiping" policies in an attempt to control this behavior. However, such policies face legal scrutiny, particularly under the National Labor Relations Act (NLRA) in the United States. The National Labor Relations Board (NLRB) has ruled that overly broad "no gossiping" policies can violate Section 8(a)(1) of the NLRA because they may restrict employees' rights to discuss terms and conditions of their employment, such as wages, hours, or working conditions.[1]

A notable example is the case of Laurus Technical Institute, where an employee, Joslyn Henderson, was fired for violating a "no gossiping" policy after discussing layoffs and job security with colleagues.[1] The NLRB found the employer's policy to be overly broad and unlawful, as it severely restricted employees from discussing or complaining about any terms and conditions of employment.[1] Consequently, Henderson's termination was deemed unlawful, and the employer was ordered to rescind the policy, reinstate Henderson with back pay, and cease enforcing the unlawful policy.[1] This case highlights that while employers can address harmful gossip, they cannot broadly prohibit all workplace discussions, especially those related to protected concerted activities under the NLRA.[1]

To effectively manage workplace gossip without infringing on employee rights, employers should focus on fostering a positive work environment and implementing clear communication strategies. Key approaches include:

• Promoting Open Communication Channels: When employees feel comfortable approaching management and each other directly with questions or concerns, the need for rumors decreases.[4] This involves managers leading by example, being transparent about company decisions, and holding regular check-ins.[4]
• Addressing Harmful Gossip: While general discussions about work conditions are protected, gossip that targets someone's reputation, rises to the level of harassment (especially concerning protected classes), involves confidential company information, or is directed at customers, warrants intervention.[1] [6]
• Establishing Clear Policies (with caveats): Companies can have policies against disrespectful conflict, bullying, and the spread of false or malicious information, but these policies must be narrowly tailored to avoid restricting protected activities under the NLRA.[1] [5] The policy should clearly define what constitutes unacceptable behavior and the consequences, while explicitly stating it does not limit discussions about wages, hours, or working conditions.[5] [6]
• Fostering a Positive Culture: Creating a culture where employees feel valued, supported, and respected can reduce the inclination to gossip.[4] This includes celebrating achievements, valuing collaboration, promoting empathy, and prioritizing mental health.[4]
• Providing Training: Offering training on conflict resolution, effective communication, and how to address disagreements constructively can equip employees with the skills to handle issues directly rather than resorting to gossip.[4] [5]
• Individual Responsibility: Encouraging employees to self-reflect before engaging in gossip by asking if the information is true, kind, and necessary can help curb its spread.[4]

Ultimately, while it's unrealistic to eliminate all workplace chatter, a strategic approach that combines clear, lawful policies with a focus on open communication, trust-building, and a positive work culture can significantly mitigate the negative impacts of gossip and create a more harmonious and productive environment.[4] [6]